Here it is - only a week until Christmas and in 2, it will be the New Year! It's just amazing to me how quickly the years fly by! I didn't think too much about the quickness until the kids started noticing it, too. When teenagers notice how fast time is going, it must be moving, indeed.
I got the presents wrapped and sent to the family away - well, for Ella and baby Aubrey who will make her appearance in early February. I made the neatest thing for Ella, a Ruprecht branch! Instead of a stocking, she has birch branches with her treats glued to them. It was a tradition in Germany when I lived there. The branches were delivered on Dec. 6th - Nicholaustag. Good little children got branches with candies and gifts and bad ones got coal and cotton on their branches. Of course, we know that all little children are good, right? So, Ella got toys and candies on her branches.
I made her the cutest little purple monkey for her Christmas. It's so cute. I hope she likes it. Aubrey's sweater is a little big for a newborn, but they grow so fast, and in Colorado, you often need a sweater at any time.
I have my ticket for baby time! I'll be out there for the baby coming. Ben will be here, and the girls will drop in while I'm gone.
Sunday, December 18, 2011
Thursday, December 8, 2011
Christmas Is A Coming
I can't believe it's been such a long time since I last posted! Things have been rather crazy. My friends say that our life experiences make us stronger, but I think my strength is ready to crack!
My son was arrested in October - his birthday weekend, and may go to prison. Then, I ran out of money - just when he needed an attorney, not to mention that we needed living expenses! I applied for some money from my retirement fund - hardship.
Today, I found out that we had been sued, had a court hearing, and lost - all without being told a court date. Wonderful. And now, I owe the state for a car accident that I didn't know had happened!!!! I just love living here. It amazes me how many things can happen that involve you that the major players don't think you need to know. That way they can collect so many illegal funds! Or so many funds illegally!
Anyway, last month, I had no money, so I tried to get my retirement fund. What a wonderful experience. I even had to have my ex-employer's signature to get the money, so I sent them the papers, and they sat on them for a week.
This wouldn't have been so bad, but I wasn't getting my child support either. I had "cancelled" the card and was supposed to get a new one. After waiting the advised week, I called - and called. The recorded message said that my new card was being processed. I finally got tired of calling and getting canned messages and called another number - where I was told to hang up and dial the first number. I screamed, and they transferred me to the correct number. There I discovered that contrary to the message, my card was NOT being processed, and I would have to pay a $15 fee to have it delivered by UPS in 2 days! I'm so sick of the people who think up these things, calling numbers where no people answer, and sick of US who allow this disrespect to continue. Everyone is so busy trying to make a dollar - from us!
Then, this week, I found an email (finally had the money to get Internet again) from my exhusband. He wants me to call and talk about our son. The son called him 6 WEEKS AGO when this happened, and he (the father) wouldn't talk to him (the son). I guess maybe he's heard from God again? Did I tell you that he (the father) hears voices, and he feels these voices are the voice of God. God saved him from cancer, and now they are best buddies, and he (the father, not God) can do anything he wants because God is on his side. I believe that God does heal, but I don't believe that I can do anything I want because I believe in God.
At any rate, I am really tired of living in this state - I know that no place is perfect, but after 20 years of never catching a break here and being a pretty nice person despite this, I'm just sick of staying here, so....
And Christmas is coming, and it doesn't feel at all like Christmas because it's become such a miserable time.
My son was arrested in October - his birthday weekend, and may go to prison. Then, I ran out of money - just when he needed an attorney, not to mention that we needed living expenses! I applied for some money from my retirement fund - hardship.
Today, I found out that we had been sued, had a court hearing, and lost - all without being told a court date. Wonderful. And now, I owe the state for a car accident that I didn't know had happened!!!! I just love living here. It amazes me how many things can happen that involve you that the major players don't think you need to know. That way they can collect so many illegal funds! Or so many funds illegally!
Anyway, last month, I had no money, so I tried to get my retirement fund. What a wonderful experience. I even had to have my ex-employer's signature to get the money, so I sent them the papers, and they sat on them for a week.
This wouldn't have been so bad, but I wasn't getting my child support either. I had "cancelled" the card and was supposed to get a new one. After waiting the advised week, I called - and called. The recorded message said that my new card was being processed. I finally got tired of calling and getting canned messages and called another number - where I was told to hang up and dial the first number. I screamed, and they transferred me to the correct number. There I discovered that contrary to the message, my card was NOT being processed, and I would have to pay a $15 fee to have it delivered by UPS in 2 days! I'm so sick of the people who think up these things, calling numbers where no people answer, and sick of US who allow this disrespect to continue. Everyone is so busy trying to make a dollar - from us!
Then, this week, I found an email (finally had the money to get Internet again) from my exhusband. He wants me to call and talk about our son. The son called him 6 WEEKS AGO when this happened, and he (the father) wouldn't talk to him (the son). I guess maybe he's heard from God again? Did I tell you that he (the father) hears voices, and he feels these voices are the voice of God. God saved him from cancer, and now they are best buddies, and he (the father, not God) can do anything he wants because God is on his side. I believe that God does heal, but I don't believe that I can do anything I want because I believe in God.
At any rate, I am really tired of living in this state - I know that no place is perfect, but after 20 years of never catching a break here and being a pretty nice person despite this, I'm just sick of staying here, so....
And Christmas is coming, and it doesn't feel at all like Christmas because it's become such a miserable time.
Monday, October 31, 2011
Halloween 2011
My little granddaughter came down to show us her costume (and get her candy!). She was very proud of her school (a 4 star), and her mother hopes that she can still attend it although they have moved to another county.
I need to move to another area of the country. This state is literally killing me. The stress from all the things they did to my kids and me during my divorce and child custody years. Can you believe it took me 8 years to get custody of my children - and I scored the highest on the parenting test of anyone in this area. Why does the court order tests and other things, and when the outcome differs from what they expect, they just ignore it? How children suffer from this attitude!
And the time it takes for judges to make decisions! They either don't realize - more likely don't care - that the child's soul will shrivel and fade away. What is a person without a soul? My son is a prime example of how the courts and their minions literally ruin children's lives. We believe adulthood begins at 18, a fraction of the rest of life, but the most formative years. These are the years when a child's morals and values are formed. By the time, we finally got judge #3 to listen to us, my son was nearly destroyed.
I need to move to another area of the country. This state is literally killing me. The stress from all the things they did to my kids and me during my divorce and child custody years. Can you believe it took me 8 years to get custody of my children - and I scored the highest on the parenting test of anyone in this area. Why does the court order tests and other things, and when the outcome differs from what they expect, they just ignore it? How children suffer from this attitude!
And the time it takes for judges to make decisions! They either don't realize - more likely don't care - that the child's soul will shrivel and fade away. What is a person without a soul? My son is a prime example of how the courts and their minions literally ruin children's lives. We believe adulthood begins at 18, a fraction of the rest of life, but the most formative years. These are the years when a child's morals and values are formed. By the time, we finally got judge #3 to listen to us, my son was nearly destroyed.
Tuesday, October 25, 2011
So much to do~
I still don't have my presentations finished. My printer doesn't work, and I need to make copies of things in order to finish them.. I'm getting a LOT stressed. I WILL get them finished: it's just that I wanted them finished earlier. Unfortunately, I have felt miserable during the last few months and didn't get them finished like I had planned. Nothing goes as planned, though, as you just have to "roll with the punches!"
Well, I must get back to work. Just a couple of weeks until the presentations are due!
Well, I must get back to work. Just a couple of weeks until the presentations are due!
Monday, October 24, 2011
Another Beautiful Day
The titile says it all: today was a beautiful day. It started off slowly, but by noon, the weather was sunny and beautiful. As the days draw closer to winter, these bright sunny days are greatly appreciated.
I've been thinking a lot about dissociation lately. It seems to be a one of those double standard topics. I can dissociate while sitting in a boring lecture or driving down familiar stretches of road, but when it comes to dissociative identity, it can't be done. Why not? Why can't a personality shatter and break into tiny little fragments. After all, the human soul is more fragile than the finest crystal. Thoughtless words break the spirit everyday. Abuse shatters the psyche: it actually is murder. The body continues to live, but the soul is changed forever.
I've been thinking a lot about dissociation lately. It seems to be a one of those double standard topics. I can dissociate while sitting in a boring lecture or driving down familiar stretches of road, but when it comes to dissociative identity, it can't be done. Why not? Why can't a personality shatter and break into tiny little fragments. After all, the human soul is more fragile than the finest crystal. Thoughtless words break the spirit everyday. Abuse shatters the psyche: it actually is murder. The body continues to live, but the soul is changed forever.
Thursday, October 20, 2011
The Visit
Just had a lovely visit from my daughter, son-in-law and granddaughter. We spent a lot of time shopping, talking, going places, etc. The big trip was to the pumpkin patch in southern Indiana. The whole family usually goes. My middle daughter didn't go this time as she and her husband were attending a wedding in Chicago, so they were certainly missed! Little Ella had a great time. She rode the pony three times, played in a corn box (like a sand box), jumped once on the bouncy ride, went down a huge slide with her mother several times, and then went to the pumpkin patch via a hay ride where we picked our pumpkins - personally - from the patch. Ella wanted to carry one of my little gourds, but it met its demise when she tripped on a vine.
Later that evening, we had a family reunion to celebrate Rachel's birthday. Everyone was there but her twin brother, Ben., making the evening bittersweet.
The seven (almost) days that they were here flew by and now leaves a hole in my heart, but it won't be long before I'll be going to Colorado to help out when baby Aubrey arrives!
Later that evening, we had a family reunion to celebrate Rachel's birthday. Everyone was there but her twin brother, Ben., making the evening bittersweet.
The seven (almost) days that they were here flew by and now leaves a hole in my heart, but it won't be long before I'll be going to Colorado to help out when baby Aubrey arrives!
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
Wannabe
Watching one of my favorite Without a Trace(s). One of the lines in the show is: How could this kid have so many enemies? Because 75% of us would have followed the Nazi's. Because it's easier to "kick a man when he's down." We follow the crowd AND do what's easiest. It's difficult to stand up for a cause - especially when no one wants to hear. One of the biggest sins that is committed is the sin of complacency. We don't want to hear about the bad in the world. It's just easier to go along with our own life and ignore the suffering in the next world, or the next block, or, next door.
I "enjoy" this episode because it demonstrates how kids can be so cruel to one another - both in person and through cyberbullying. How everone wants to fit in, and how far they'll go in order to do so.
I "enjoy" this episode because it demonstrates how kids can be so cruel to one another - both in person and through cyberbullying. How everone wants to fit in, and how far they'll go in order to do so.
Tuesday, September 27, 2011
Interesting Day
We had an interesting day. Luckily, nothing big, or bad, happened today. It was rather long as we (my mother and I) went to the doctor today - over an hour a piece! She has to go back Friday afternoon, so I guess I'll be taking my computer and notes and be working on my presentation for November. It's coming up shortly! I still have to finish one and begin the other. Taok about procrastination! Actually, I haven't felt very well. I'm just hoping I'll be able to get up and go on the days they're due; both presentations are early - and in Indianapolis!! Maybe while I'm there, I'l stop by Tony Stewart's office and tell him what I think about Indiana teaching!!!
Back to the presentations: I need to get my texting one on a power point, get my notes done and on a power point, and PRACTICE!!!!!
I still can't get that last episode of Toddlers and Tiaras out of my mind. The mother actually believed that she and her child were one. What a horrible life for that child.
Teen dating violence. How it's changed over the years. I know that kids are still violent - physically - with one another, but like bullying, it has expanded so greatly. Now kids can threaten their "steady" by texting and over the Internet. What a world. Why do people have to be so mean to each other? I just think it's so much easier to be nice to others than mean!
Back to the presentations: I need to get my texting one on a power point, get my notes done and on a power point, and PRACTICE!!!!!
I still can't get that last episode of Toddlers and Tiaras out of my mind. The mother actually believed that she and her child were one. What a horrible life for that child.
Teen dating violence. How it's changed over the years. I know that kids are still violent - physically - with one another, but like bullying, it has expanded so greatly. Now kids can threaten their "steady" by texting and over the Internet. What a world. Why do people have to be so mean to each other? I just think it's so much easier to be nice to others than mean!
Saturday, September 24, 2011
Whew! It's been a long time!
I haven't written for a while - I've been sick! I don't know why I'm so tired all the time. I guess it's the fibromyalgia. Which is not good because I wanted to get started with life coaching, at the least and try to build up a client list. But, all I've done is sleep, get up, and rest. I think I might be feeling a little better - just not much.
I have finally begun to work on my presentations on Teen Dating Violence and Texting, Sexting, and Cyberbullying. I need to finish up my notes for the texting presentation and get dating violence one done. Well, as Scarlet said, "After all, tomorrow is another day!"
I don't know why, but I love watching "Toddlers in Tiaras." The show this past week was really revealing. I couldn't believe the woman who actually believed that she and her daughter were one in feeling about pageants! Most, no all, appear to believe that they are actually taking their children to pageants because the child enjoys them! At 2 weeks?! Come on? These women need to get another hobby. Maybe they should take up knitting. I enjoy it!
Well, I'm glad to be back and hope to write more frequently.
Ciau.
I have finally begun to work on my presentations on Teen Dating Violence and Texting, Sexting, and Cyberbullying. I need to finish up my notes for the texting presentation and get dating violence one done. Well, as Scarlet said, "After all, tomorrow is another day!"
I don't know why, but I love watching "Toddlers in Tiaras." The show this past week was really revealing. I couldn't believe the woman who actually believed that she and her daughter were one in feeling about pageants! Most, no all, appear to believe that they are actually taking their children to pageants because the child enjoys them! At 2 weeks?! Come on? These women need to get another hobby. Maybe they should take up knitting. I enjoy it!
Well, I'm glad to be back and hope to write more frequently.
Ciau.
Friday, July 15, 2011
I accomplished something!
Today was a good day. We had a class at Ivy Tech to go over the new reading program that they're implementing this fall. It's going to be very interesting. I love the new Internet program that can accompany the text. It's especially great because the quizzes will be graded immediately, and I won't have to grade them anymore!
This afternoon, I stayed at my daughter's apartment, so that her boyfriend could move their things while she was at work. He didn't have to unlock the door all the time, and I worked on reading things for my presentations in November. The sexting and cyberbullying information was expecially interesting. I have some more things to look up concerning laws and what we can do to prevent kids from ruining their lives with these ways of communication. Now, if we can just get parents to also control themselves!
I watched a new to me show last night: Dance Mom. I can't believe how those women acted on national television! I don't know if it's scripted, or not, but it's unbelievable how they behave. Just like the Toddlers in Tiaras. How can those women be so agressive and have such high expectations of their small children? No positive role models there.
This afternoon, I stayed at my daughter's apartment, so that her boyfriend could move their things while she was at work. He didn't have to unlock the door all the time, and I worked on reading things for my presentations in November. The sexting and cyberbullying information was expecially interesting. I have some more things to look up concerning laws and what we can do to prevent kids from ruining their lives with these ways of communication. Now, if we can just get parents to also control themselves!
I watched a new to me show last night: Dance Mom. I can't believe how those women acted on national television! I don't know if it's scripted, or not, but it's unbelievable how they behave. Just like the Toddlers in Tiaras. How can those women be so agressive and have such high expectations of their small children? No positive role models there.
Thursday, July 7, 2011
I can't believe it's July already!
Wow! Time is sure flying by - and I'm not getting anything done!! For some reason, I've been especially tired lately, so I'm going for bloodwork Monday to see if there is anything missing from my blood. Sounds like fun.
Anyway, that's what's going on right now, and I will get busy as soon as I feel better. I HATE not working!
Anyway, that's what's going on right now, and I will get busy as soon as I feel better. I HATE not working!
Wednesday, June 29, 2011
Looking to the future
There was once a time when I didn't think that there would be a future, but, it is here. I look forward to finally being able to do what I have wanted to do for a long time. It's been a long, at times endless, time; often, survival was all that could be hoped for. My children and I have been through so much. I can understand others who are experiencing difficult times, not just through empathy but through having walked in their shoes. When going through troubles, you need an ear to hear; I understand.
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
What a beautiful day!
It is really beautiful here in Indiana today. The weather is perfect! I love it when it's not too cold and not too hot - at the "just right" stage.
I am trying to work on my speeches for the Indiana counselors conference. They will be about texting and cyberbullying and on teen dating violence. I'm trying to locate a better computer and a projector as they have to be supplied by the presenter. I have some movie and tv clips that I want to include, so I'm going to have to do a lot of learning in the next few months! I've never tried these things bofore. Gotta learn sometime.
I'm also working to make the house accessible for tutoring and life coaching. So, if anyone needs a tutor or a life coach - or a presentation, I live about an hour south of Indianapolis!
I am trying to work on my speeches for the Indiana counselors conference. They will be about texting and cyberbullying and on teen dating violence. I'm trying to locate a better computer and a projector as they have to be supplied by the presenter. I have some movie and tv clips that I want to include, so I'm going to have to do a lot of learning in the next few months! I've never tried these things bofore. Gotta learn sometime.
I'm also working to make the house accessible for tutoring and life coaching. So, if anyone needs a tutor or a life coach - or a presentation, I live about an hour south of Indianapolis!
Wednesday, June 15, 2011
Sad and Lonely
Just got back from putting my daughter and granddaughter on a plane home to Colorado. Feeling rather sad right now. We had a great visit - for the most part - and it seemed way too short.
Now I have to get started doing things in order to start and build up my business. I think my best bet now is to begin a life coaching business and see if prehaps I can work someplace, sometime, as a counselor. I just want to finally accomplish what I have wanted to do for years - help others solve problems.
I've been at the lowest point and understand how difficult this time can be, but it is possible to climb out of that dark hole and begin again. Sappy. Will close for now!
Now I have to get started doing things in order to start and build up my business. I think my best bet now is to begin a life coaching business and see if prehaps I can work someplace, sometime, as a counselor. I just want to finally accomplish what I have wanted to do for years - help others solve problems.
I've been at the lowest point and understand how difficult this time can be, but it is possible to climb out of that dark hole and begin again. Sappy. Will close for now!
Saturday, June 4, 2011
Such a beautiful day
This is the first Saturday of June, and it is a beautiful one. My daughters and I went to the farmer's market this morning. I found some beautiful plants and vegetables. I also bought lunch for my mother and me - vegan cuisine. I don't think my mother realized it!
Yesterday was my last day at work. I don't think it's really "hit" me yet, as I did the same thing that I do every year at this time. Finish grades, clean up, and leave. When August comes, I will realize that it's actually over, and I'm not going back.
Right now, I am watching television - Haunted History - so fun!, and setting goals for the future. I have a ton of things to do before I can begin my "second" - or is it my "third" career, but I can plan and dream about what I hope to do. I am planning on creating web sites and other things to advertise on the Internet and placing ads in the paper. I've been through a lot, and I think I have a lot to share with others about coping with difficulties in life. If you need me, I am here. I will be your life coach.
Yesterday was my last day at work. I don't think it's really "hit" me yet, as I did the same thing that I do every year at this time. Finish grades, clean up, and leave. When August comes, I will realize that it's actually over, and I'm not going back.
Right now, I am watching television - Haunted History - so fun!, and setting goals for the future. I have a ton of things to do before I can begin my "second" - or is it my "third" career, but I can plan and dream about what I hope to do. I am planning on creating web sites and other things to advertise on the Internet and placing ads in the paper. I've been through a lot, and I think I have a lot to share with others about coping with difficulties in life. If you need me, I am here. I will be your life coach.
Wednesday, June 1, 2011
The first day of June
I can't believe that the last day of school is finally here. Tomorrow is the final student day, and Friday is my last day - forever - of school. I may substitute, but I don't think that I will ever teach full time again. I want to do counseling. I feel like counseling is a calling. I love it! Helping people find their way is what I want to do for my life's work. Nothing else is more fulfilling. Keeping my fingers crossed that I will be able to do what I want - and be able to help people in the process.
Monday, May 30, 2011
Memorial Day
I'm looking forward to "retirement." I'm hoping to be able to do presentations on a variety of topics ranging from psychological to storytelling. I will be working on speeches and presentations in the future as well as making crafts to go on my daughter's and my websites - I love Etsy!
I also want to tutor as I enjoy teaching, and I want to write. There are a lot of things that I'm interesting in, and I hope to share information that I have learned along the way with others.
I also want to tutor as I enjoy teaching, and I want to write. There are a lot of things that I'm interesting in, and I hope to share information that I have learned along the way with others.
Tuesday, May 24, 2011
Next to the last Tuesday
Rather a bad day today. I ached all day and am still aching dreadfully now. At least, I can put my feet up. This rainy Indiana weather is taking a toll on my body this year. Usually in the nearly summer time, I feel better. I'm still hoping to relocate to another area where it's dryer - I just don't want hoter! I guess, though, that I can always tell clients that I understand what others are going through.
The girls went to a movie together this afternoon - the bridesmaid one - they said it wasn't as good as advertised. One reason why I don't go to movies very often. It's just too much money for no more entertainment than it is. When you can get DVD's at the dollar stores and garage sales, why bother?
I'm looking forward to setting up my web sites. I think I'll also run ads in the paper for tutoring and music lessons. I need to prepare brochures for other things - like storytelling - and put out newsletters and send emails to daycares, etc. I have so many ideas going through my brain; I'm very excited!
The girls went to a movie together this afternoon - the bridesmaid one - they said it wasn't as good as advertised. One reason why I don't go to movies very often. It's just too much money for no more entertainment than it is. When you can get DVD's at the dollar stores and garage sales, why bother?
I'm looking forward to setting up my web sites. I think I'll also run ads in the paper for tutoring and music lessons. I need to prepare brochures for other things - like storytelling - and put out newsletters and send emails to daycares, etc. I have so many ideas going through my brain; I'm very excited!
Monday, May 23, 2011
My last Monday in school
I'm so tired; I'm sick of parents who think tht I'm supposed to pass their children, no matter what their children are doing in class - like nothing. I will be so glad to be away from all the politics that come with the territory of teaching. It shouldn't be this difficult; it's not for everyone. As one of my friends said when she heard that I was hired: "How did you make it? You're not one of the pretty people!" I totally agree, and there have been many, many times that I wish that I hadn't. Some places are worse than others. The focus should be on educating our future, but instead, many of the administrators are too busy trying to be popular instead of realizing that popular isn't always the right way to be.
I know that no job is perfect, but when teaching is not the enjoyable task that it should be, then it is time to go. (In other words, what's the point of teaching if all it takes is complaining istead of work to get a grade?)
I know that no job is perfect, but when teaching is not the enjoyable task that it should be, then it is time to go. (In other words, what's the point of teaching if all it takes is complaining istead of work to get a grade?)
Wednesday, May 18, 2011
Wednesday
No news yet from the travelers. They should be home any minute now. I hope the flight was smooth. I don't even know what airline they came on; she just sent me the times. Hope they get here soon. When they're gone next month, it's work, work, work as I need to get my business GOING!
Wednesday
Still no word from my daughter and granddaughter, and the plane landed nearly 2 hours ago. Probably stopped someplace to do something! In my car and probably with my credit card!
I didn't get much done today with my crafting which was rather disappointing, but I was busy with a student planning a trip to Germany next summer. Can't wait. It's been 10 years since I've been there. It's probably changed a lot; thing's do, but it will certainly be great to be back there. I always feel as if I am home again - after all these years; my family came to the United States before the Revolutionary War, but it still feels good being there. When we come to America, we search out places that look like home.
I didn't get much done today with my crafting which was rather disappointing, but I was busy with a student planning a trip to Germany next summer. Can't wait. It's been 10 years since I've been there. It's probably changed a lot; thing's do, but it will certainly be great to be back there. I always feel as if I am home again - after all these years; my family came to the United States before the Revolutionary War, but it still feels good being there. When we come to America, we search out places that look like home.
Tuesday, May 17, 2011
Only 2 more Tuesdays
Then school will be out for the summer! And much longer for me.
I have a lot to do this summer to get ready for the ISCA Conference. I'm very excited about it and want to get all the information together. I need to look up statistics. I've found several articles, movies, and TV shows dealing with the topics of teen dating violence and cyberbullying. Actually, my topic is "Texting, Sexting, and Cyberbullying." I just don't understand why kids will do some of the things that they do: like solicite sex with the use of a cell phone or literally bully someone to death. I'd like to include a clip from a CSI: Miami that dealt with bullying. A girl was bullying her classmates in just about any way possible, and she ended up getting stoned - by the parents of her classmates. Very sad.
My first two classes of the day are awfully bad to bully others. I've spent a lot of time explaining what bullying is and for them to stop, but without backup from the administration, not as much can be done. The problem is that the administrators know these kids and don't think that they can act that way. They can. When we stick our heads in the sand, we allow the cycles to continue. People aren't always what they appear to be.
I have a lot to do this summer to get ready for the ISCA Conference. I'm very excited about it and want to get all the information together. I need to look up statistics. I've found several articles, movies, and TV shows dealing with the topics of teen dating violence and cyberbullying. Actually, my topic is "Texting, Sexting, and Cyberbullying." I just don't understand why kids will do some of the things that they do: like solicite sex with the use of a cell phone or literally bully someone to death. I'd like to include a clip from a CSI: Miami that dealt with bullying. A girl was bullying her classmates in just about any way possible, and she ended up getting stoned - by the parents of her classmates. Very sad.
My first two classes of the day are awfully bad to bully others. I've spent a lot of time explaining what bullying is and for them to stop, but without backup from the administration, not as much can be done. The problem is that the administrators know these kids and don't think that they can act that way. They can. When we stick our heads in the sand, we allow the cycles to continue. People aren't always what they appear to be.
Monday, May 16, 2011
Monday, Monday
Alright, so I'm a little older - I listen to classic radio every day. I can still understand some of the things going on in today's society. And, to make me even dweebier, I love classical music, too; not just rock, but Bach! That's the kind of music that dreams (for me) are made of.
This has been a different spring; last week, we had nearly 90 degree weather, and this week, the weather is in the 50's with lows in the 30's! That's spring in Indiana. As the old saying goes, just wait,, and the weather will change.
I need to buy a remote for my computer, so that I can present some power point presentations. I'm supposed to give 2 presentations in November at a conference in Indianapolis. One is on cyberbullying, and the other is on teen dating violence. I'm a little nervous, and will be even more as the time draws closer, but these are topics that are near and dear to me - watching teens in relationships for 20 years plus have made me very aware of the difficulties that they face. We live in such a violent society; we need to be winners - or loosers. Even "teasing" among students has such a negative effect. We need to be aware of this, and change, and help others to change.
This has been a different spring; last week, we had nearly 90 degree weather, and this week, the weather is in the 50's with lows in the 30's! That's spring in Indiana. As the old saying goes, just wait,, and the weather will change.
I need to buy a remote for my computer, so that I can present some power point presentations. I'm supposed to give 2 presentations in November at a conference in Indianapolis. One is on cyberbullying, and the other is on teen dating violence. I'm a little nervous, and will be even more as the time draws closer, but these are topics that are near and dear to me - watching teens in relationships for 20 years plus have made me very aware of the difficulties that they face. We live in such a violent society; we need to be winners - or loosers. Even "teasing" among students has such a negative effect. We need to be aware of this, and change, and help others to change.
Friday, May 13, 2011
Glad to be back
I tried to blog yesterday, but it was down. It's rather scary when a website's down. At any rate, I'm glad it's back.
There's just a few days left until retirement day. I'm looking forward to it so much. It's not that I don't like teaching - I love it. It's just that I've wanted to do counseling for so many years, but there were too many stumbling blocks thrown into my path. I guess I should be thankful for these stumbling blocks, for they have made me more aware of many things: the prevalence of domestic violence, the effect over the lifespan of child abuse, prejudice, the Milgram principle - the list goes on. I do hope I can find clients either through being a life coach or finding employment with an agency. Life experiences teach us far better than any text, and I have a lot to offer.
There's just a few days left until retirement day. I'm looking forward to it so much. It's not that I don't like teaching - I love it. It's just that I've wanted to do counseling for so many years, but there were too many stumbling blocks thrown into my path. I guess I should be thankful for these stumbling blocks, for they have made me more aware of many things: the prevalence of domestic violence, the effect over the lifespan of child abuse, prejudice, the Milgram principle - the list goes on. I do hope I can find clients either through being a life coach or finding employment with an agency. Life experiences teach us far better than any text, and I have a lot to offer.
Wednesday, May 11, 2011
speeches
I've been collecting data for a couple of speeches that I will be presenting in November at a conference in Indy. I'm so nervous, but I feel passionately about these topics and am looking forward to geting the information together and getting everything together. I need to learn how to download movie clips into a presentation and get power points made. The topics are: texting, sexting, and cyberbullying and teen dating violence. Both are subjects that I feel very passionately about. If we can get kids to be aware of their actions and the effect that these actions have on others, prehaps there will be an end to the violence in our society. I see so much bullying - kids against other kids, kids against adults, bullying in the workplace; how can we act like such animals? It happens so much that I don't think that some of the kids even realize it. And then we have to factor in the Milgram experiment - or, as my great-grandmother used to say, "Water seeks its level." If someone starts bullying another person, everyone joins in. No one will "stand up" for the victim. I've seen one of my students in tears. Yes, he can be annoying - but so can the others, but everyone "jumps" on this kid and don't realize that what they do is just as bad, or worse, than what he does. It's very frustrating. Guess, I'll just keep on trying. Maybe someday things will change.
Tuesday, May 10, 2011
The end is getting closer and closer and closer...
I'm so excited! I want to try what I've wanted to do for years but wasn't allowed. "Get out and get a job, or we'll take your kids away!" Gotta love Monroe County. You jump through all the hoops, and they take your kids, your money, your self-esteem anyway. It's amazing how much happier I feel even though I may be living in a tent behind Marsh in a few months. I went from one abuser to another. Unbelievable how low someone can make you feel. I don't believe in the "sticks and stones can break your bones, but words can never hurt you" line. Words can kill you - or make you wish you were dead. No more!
I have had a couple of job interview, but they didn't pan out. I don't want to work someplace exclusively for low pay (less than what I was offered there 3 years ago without the degree) and long hours. The other place hired someone else, but that was okay with me. It made me feel uncomfortable. I'd like to life coach and tutor. I'd also like to do some speaking as I've had several life experiences that might be interesting to others. I will be giving a couple of speeches at a conference in Indianapolis in November (I can't believe that both my topics were chosen), so I have a lot of work to do this summer to get things ready for that: learning to download movie and tv selections on the computer, creating presentations on the computer - where's my powerpoint?, and getting the little tool (I'm so computer literate) that means that I can project my computer screen onto the big slide on the wall. I'm gathering material. Now I just have to read it, organize it, write out the speech, write the handouts and presentation, and practice. Not much.
Better get going. I want to post on my other blog and work on some things for the Etsy.
Have a wonderful tomorrow.
I have had a couple of job interview, but they didn't pan out. I don't want to work someplace exclusively for low pay (less than what I was offered there 3 years ago without the degree) and long hours. The other place hired someone else, but that was okay with me. It made me feel uncomfortable. I'd like to life coach and tutor. I'd also like to do some speaking as I've had several life experiences that might be interesting to others. I will be giving a couple of speeches at a conference in Indianapolis in November (I can't believe that both my topics were chosen), so I have a lot of work to do this summer to get things ready for that: learning to download movie and tv selections on the computer, creating presentations on the computer - where's my powerpoint?, and getting the little tool (I'm so computer literate) that means that I can project my computer screen onto the big slide on the wall. I'm gathering material. Now I just have to read it, organize it, write out the speech, write the handouts and presentation, and practice. Not much.
Better get going. I want to post on my other blog and work on some things for the Etsy.
Have a wonderful tomorrow.
Wednesday, May 4, 2011
Only 21 more days!!
I'm counting (anxiously) down the days until school's out. I'm really frustrated and annoyed with some of the little darlings. Someone defaced another student's extra credit today. I almost cried. It was just such a childish thing to do. I was so proud of this kid's work - he had drawn a life-sized outline of himself and labeled all the parts in German. I had planned on taking it home and hanging it in my office, but now I can't! It seems like the students get more immature each year.
I need to get my website completed and send out some newsletters and things to some daycares and other places around for my storytelling and things and also to some agencies for my speeches. Hope that things work out. I have studied a long time to get my counseling degree, so I'm hoping that this turn in my life will be a positive one.
I need to get my website completed and send out some newsletters and things to some daycares and other places around for my storytelling and things and also to some agencies for my speeches. Hope that things work out. I have studied a long time to get my counseling degree, so I'm hoping that this turn in my life will be a positive one.
Monday, May 2, 2011
Another rainy Monday
I think I'm going to build an ark. I don't know how long it's been raining now, but it does seem like close to 40 days. Do you think we might be having another message from God?
Speaking of God and rain, the other day when I was returning from a job interview in Evansville (no, I didn't take it - too many restrictions, like not as much pay as they were offering 3 years ago, they hire a lot in this area - translation: no one stays at the job because it's so poor, and I wouldn't be able to work anywhere else as it's a conflict of interest.)
Counting down the days! My second period class really makes retirement look good even if I end up living in a box down by the creek! They are so obnoxious, but they don't even bother doing anything about them - those are good boys! And they're going to grow up to be rapists and criminals as they are not checked now. There are so many children like that down there who are turning into monsters as the parents are friends with the administrators. Nice, huh?
In this vein; I wish that students would learn to take responsibility for themselves. It is the last week of classes, and I have one student who hasn't turned in anything; 2 students who have turned in paper each; and many who have attended enough to get any points for attendance - we start with 100 which counts for 20% of the grade. You're allowed 2 misses (one evening for us), and there are several students who either don't come - 2 classes, or leave after the break - 1 class. Subtract 15 points after the 2 misses, and ...
Well, it's not MY grade!
Guess I'd better be closing. I opened an Etsy shop today, and I want to start a blog about that, so I'm getting off of here for now.
Monday's down!
Speaking of God and rain, the other day when I was returning from a job interview in Evansville (no, I didn't take it - too many restrictions, like not as much pay as they were offering 3 years ago, they hire a lot in this area - translation: no one stays at the job because it's so poor, and I wouldn't be able to work anywhere else as it's a conflict of interest.)
Counting down the days! My second period class really makes retirement look good even if I end up living in a box down by the creek! They are so obnoxious, but they don't even bother doing anything about them - those are good boys! And they're going to grow up to be rapists and criminals as they are not checked now. There are so many children like that down there who are turning into monsters as the parents are friends with the administrators. Nice, huh?
In this vein; I wish that students would learn to take responsibility for themselves. It is the last week of classes, and I have one student who hasn't turned in anything; 2 students who have turned in paper each; and many who have attended enough to get any points for attendance - we start with 100 which counts for 20% of the grade. You're allowed 2 misses (one evening for us), and there are several students who either don't come - 2 classes, or leave after the break - 1 class. Subtract 15 points after the 2 misses, and ...
Well, it's not MY grade!
Guess I'd better be closing. I opened an Etsy shop today, and I want to start a blog about that, so I'm getting off of here for now.
Monday's down!
Tuesday, April 19, 2011
31 Days Until Graduation
The countdown is on! I'm rather excited but apprehensive. Nothing is lined up yet, and I'm nervous about that, but I'm worried about getting a full time job. I don't want to trade one wearying position for another. I've been told that if I'm offered a job to take it! But, I also have my name in for teaching at Mitchell for Vincennes, and I'd like to try some things on my own. I know it's crazy, but there are things that I've been wanting to do for years - but how much can you do for only 10 weeks out of the year and build up a business?!
I am really tired tonight. The electric company is driving us crazy. They are certainly a service. All they see are $$$$ signs.
It's been a busy past few weeks. I'm trying to get some things made for Rachel's web site and also getting things ready to open a store with things for older people. Exciting.
Also interested in tutoring as I do love to teach - just not where I am now. I'm so tired of always being wrong. At one point, I was even questioning whether it was possible that I was on the grassy knoll! Of course, I wasn't, but after a period of time when nothing that you do is right, you begin to question yourself.
Well, I am cutting this short as I need to do a few other things, but the countdown is on.
I am really tired tonight. The electric company is driving us crazy. They are certainly a service. All they see are $$$$ signs.
It's been a busy past few weeks. I'm trying to get some things made for Rachel's web site and also getting things ready to open a store with things for older people. Exciting.
Also interested in tutoring as I do love to teach - just not where I am now. I'm so tired of always being wrong. At one point, I was even questioning whether it was possible that I was on the grassy knoll! Of course, I wasn't, but after a period of time when nothing that you do is right, you begin to question yourself.
Well, I am cutting this short as I need to do a few other things, but the countdown is on.
Sunday, March 13, 2011
Much Ado
I have been very busy the last few days. I remembered the "A Fair of the Arts" that takes place at the Farmer's Market each year and decided to apply for this year. BUT, it was too late. SO I emailed the director who told me that if I could get some pictures emailed and the application mailed by the next day, they would consider me! So I did.
I've been trying to get some things made for our Etsy website, too.
I've also been working on a resume and etceras for a position at IU and am applying for other positions that I've seen in the paper. Keep your fingers crossed! This is a very exciting time in my life, and I'm hoping to get some things going.
With that in mind, I'd better get back to work. I'm hoping to add some pictures of some of my work in the near future, so keep in touch.
I've been trying to get some things made for our Etsy website, too.
I've also been working on a resume and etceras for a position at IU and am applying for other positions that I've seen in the paper. Keep your fingers crossed! This is a very exciting time in my life, and I'm hoping to get some things going.
With that in mind, I'd better get back to work. I'm hoping to add some pictures of some of my work in the near future, so keep in touch.
Friday, February 25, 2011
Another Friday night
It's been a fairly good day. Really tired since it's the end of the week, but that is to be expected.
A little bit of arthritis swellling in a couple of in my knuckles.
I am trying to make folded flowers. They're all the craze right now, and with two little granddaughters - and who knows, maybe a teenager that might like them, too, I decided to start making them. They are different from the bows that I used to make for the girls' when they were little. Back then, they were "bow-y," but now they are "flower-y." At any rate, I enjoy making them! I'd like to make them for little baby things for Rachel's web site. Hopefully, they will sell. I would like to get some things going there and maybe get her site going a little.
I also need to get everything organized here and get busy studying for my counseling license. The economy is getting better; they're offering a good early retirement benefit; and I would like to get started doing what I've wanted to do for 30 (almost) years now - counsel. I felt like I was good at it when I was working at the homeless shelter, and I certainly love doing it. I also want to do some writing, speeches, do some talks, storytelling, and workshops. Keep your fingers crossed for me.
A little bit of arthritis swellling in a couple of in my knuckles.
I am trying to make folded flowers. They're all the craze right now, and with two little granddaughters - and who knows, maybe a teenager that might like them, too, I decided to start making them. They are different from the bows that I used to make for the girls' when they were little. Back then, they were "bow-y," but now they are "flower-y." At any rate, I enjoy making them! I'd like to make them for little baby things for Rachel's web site. Hopefully, they will sell. I would like to get some things going there and maybe get her site going a little.
I also need to get everything organized here and get busy studying for my counseling license. The economy is getting better; they're offering a good early retirement benefit; and I would like to get started doing what I've wanted to do for 30 (almost) years now - counsel. I felt like I was good at it when I was working at the homeless shelter, and I certainly love doing it. I also want to do some writing, speeches, do some talks, storytelling, and workshops. Keep your fingers crossed for me.
Friday, February 18, 2011
Another MARVELOUS Friday
It's finally Friday! I love the weekends. They are a time to rest and prepare for the next week. The good news is that I don't have to go out this weekend for groceries: the bad news is that I don't have enough money to buy groceries! My car's rear differential went out a couple of weeks ago, and I will say that it cost a pay check to repair! So the next few weeks, we are going to be living poor!
We are filling in the old swimming pool. The last people to put a liner in actually didn't do a very good job, and then our friendly neighbors are a very much to "help" themselves to things that they think we don't need! Anyway, when it is filled with a few feet of recyclables, we will put some topsoil on it and plant a garden. I'm thinking a few tomato plants and a butterfly garden with a small fish pond. Can't wait! Then I'm putting a canopy over the deck, and a "step" from the house to the deck. Deck furniture. Iced tea, a favorite book..... Heaven!
I'm also looking to getting my office fixed up and begin tutoring, speaking, and other things. It's so exciting getting an office, but I miss the kids that used to populate the rooms. Life does go on, but empty nest...? I just wish that we lived in a culture where all the generations live under one roof. Aah, now that would be the life. I know that they need to start their own lives, but it does get lonely at times, but it is now MY time, and hopefully I'll be able to use this time before I get too old!
I finally am building up the courage to study for my license in mental health counseling. I probably will take it sometime this summer, so keep your fingers crossed for me that I will find the time to study, be able to retain what I study, and pass the test to become a LICENSED MENTAL HEALTH COUNSELOR!!
Keep me in your thoughts and/or prayers.
We are filling in the old swimming pool. The last people to put a liner in actually didn't do a very good job, and then our friendly neighbors are a very much to "help" themselves to things that they think we don't need! Anyway, when it is filled with a few feet of recyclables, we will put some topsoil on it and plant a garden. I'm thinking a few tomato plants and a butterfly garden with a small fish pond. Can't wait! Then I'm putting a canopy over the deck, and a "step" from the house to the deck. Deck furniture. Iced tea, a favorite book..... Heaven!
I'm also looking to getting my office fixed up and begin tutoring, speaking, and other things. It's so exciting getting an office, but I miss the kids that used to populate the rooms. Life does go on, but empty nest...? I just wish that we lived in a culture where all the generations live under one roof. Aah, now that would be the life. I know that they need to start their own lives, but it does get lonely at times, but it is now MY time, and hopefully I'll be able to use this time before I get too old!
I finally am building up the courage to study for my license in mental health counseling. I probably will take it sometime this summer, so keep your fingers crossed for me that I will find the time to study, be able to retain what I study, and pass the test to become a LICENSED MENTAL HEALTH COUNSELOR!!
Keep me in your thoughts and/or prayers.
Thursday, February 3, 2011
I've been away a long time
I've been away for a long time - computer problems. But now, they are ironed out. I hope.
Things are moving along. I'm trying to keep up with my classes at the different schools where I teach and also need to study for taking my board exam sothat I can be a licensed counselor in this state.
I also plan on using my skills that I learned in counseling to also become a life coach. I'm taking a course in Life Coaching - I earlier completed one in being a parenting coach and am taking a Christian counseling course through Light University. Lots of fun and keeps me very busy.
My little Yorkie, Elizabeth, is asking for attention - it never fails; just get on the phone or the computer!
Until later.
Things are moving along. I'm trying to keep up with my classes at the different schools where I teach and also need to study for taking my board exam sothat I can be a licensed counselor in this state.
I also plan on using my skills that I learned in counseling to also become a life coach. I'm taking a course in Life Coaching - I earlier completed one in being a parenting coach and am taking a Christian counseling course through Light University. Lots of fun and keeps me very busy.
My little Yorkie, Elizabeth, is asking for attention - it never fails; just get on the phone or the computer!
Until later.
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